This Is What Happens When You Love Someone Who Has Built Up Walls

by zee

What if a person who has built up walls likes another person who has built up walls? Who takes the first move, who can stay on the longest, who will give up first? How do you know both these walls are worth staying on & deconstructing, how much sacrifice is enough, how much is too much?

Thought Catalog

Loving someone who has walls up is not a careless decision. It takes a conscious commitment to assign yourself as the one to take the first strike at the concrete surrounding their heart. These are people who have painted over their fragile skin with instant-ready cement, blocking out the feel of fingerprints and the echo of empty promises. They tell themselves that all the little nuances that make them secret romantics have to stay hidden away.

But despite it all — despite the walls and the “do not enter” sign they hang around their neck — you might just fall for them. And in some miracle of ways, they might fall for you, too.

For them, loving you will be like walking into a construction zone: messy and just a little bit dangerous. But it all will come with the promise of tearing down old walls to make room for…

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